Apr 13, 20196 min

“The Tantalizing Tree of Lives”

A Tantalizing Book Review of Elizabeth Garden’s: “Tree of Lives”

by Zoe Papadopoulos

Question: If you were tied to a tree, how would you get yourself free?

…This question may sound silly and of little consequence, but it is of great importance to the work I am about to publish. The culmination of years of study and research is my PhD thesis, titled, “The Entropy of Democracy in Western Society.” The riddle of being tied to a tree provides the setting and theme—and initiates the pace—of my thesis. It is the metaphorical glue that holds my central-argument together. And, for this cohesion, and for many enlightening ideas that influenced my thesis, I am indebted to the American author Elizabeth Garden, and to her book: Tree of Lives.

I came to
 
America from Nafplio (Peloponnese), Greece to study sociology and American
 
literature. My post-graduate work
 
focuses on the ethnological differences that contribute to either the
 
reinforcement—or the dissolution—of democracy in the West. Books by contemporary authors are vital tools
 
in my research, and I voraciously read to compare American ideologies (my
 
test-group) with those of Europe (my control-group).

Tantalus, the Greek Myth says, began the family curse that lasted many generations. Keep reading to find out more.

Garden’s book was an enlightening discovery. It gave me a new perspective on many of the challenging ideas I was working with. On the surface, Tree of Lives is about childhood scars and family dysfunction. Its ‘polyptycho’, or multi-leveled, narrative-form illustrates several generations in the family-life of an American woman who was physically, emotionally, and sexually abused as a child and adolescent; and this woman’s efforts to make sense of the world in the aftermath of this abuse. Through vignettes of daily-life in a comfortably-affluent 20th Century America, the protagonist (Ruth) comes to terms with the toxic familial experiences of her past, so that she can construct her adult identity. By studying the “growth-patterns” of her family-tree, Ruth works to decipher the mysteries of her life, and answer the questions essential to her existence: Who is she is? Where did she come from? And, where she is going? These three questions, (though often disguised) are what is being asked when humans participate in sacred ceremonies throughout human civilizations. Ceremony may take the form of a drum ritual led by tribal chieftains, where participants believe the drums will chase away evil spirits; or, in a case identifiable by Western experience, ceremony may take the form of a mother accusing her husband before courts and doctors of abuse towards her child. This Western example might not sound as sacred to us as the drums, because we are ‘within the culture’; but this mother is doing exactly what the drummers are trying to do: Chase away evil spirits. She is asking sacred questions of life: What are my values, my position in society, and what are my circumstances? And where is this taking me and what can I do about it? There is a very emotionally moving paragraph where Garden writes:

“Throwing people off cliffs was the tragic family ethos and Ruth chose not to do that. Instead, she jumped.”

…Garden may just as easily
 
be a Greek tragedian writing this passage.
 
So much of the Greek canon (Oedipus, Tantalus and the House of Atreus,
 
etc.) is devoted to an individual’s conflict of a “tragic family ethos.”

Garden is a very fine writer, and her ability to sustain a polytemporal narrative with numerous principal characters is worthy of admiration. But it is Tree of Lives’ ethnological importance to my own work that has inspired me to write this review.

What intrigued first and
 
foremost is Garden’s perspective on causality and moral justice. It is remarkable to read an American author
 
who explores the concept of “hereditary curse” as Garden does. American Individualism, which permeates
 
every aspect of this society, is ingrained in the American mind to a degree
 
that is striking for a European like myself to observe.

We have a common saying in Greece:
 

(Amartiae goneon pedevousi tekna)

This can
 
be translated to read: “The parent’s sin is the children’s strife.” The closest equivalent in American locution
 
would be: “The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree”; but it is rarely used and
 
doesn’t imply what the Greek proverb specifically names; as the notion that “we
 
are our parent’s children” is contrary to American values. Similarly, the proverb, “Like father, like
 
son,” is only used by Americans in light-hearted banter, and would be
 
inappropriate to justify, or explain, any consequentiality involving moral
 
issues. When ancestors are not
 
admirable, Europeans will “atone,” whereas Americans will disown.”

Garden’s Tree of Lives can be read as a book
 
about ‘atonement’—a book about “reconciliation.” Through this interpretation, it makes for a
 
book even more impressive, more unique, and worthier of discussion. Garden does not have the typically American
 
reactionary instinct to disown her unsavory past. She intuitively knows that a parent’s sin is
 
the child’s strife, unless, the child
 
atones for that sin. Yet, as Garden also
 
shows, atonement is not a means of ‘saving’ the sinful parent; it is an act to
 
save one’s self through a reconciliation with that greater entity that is,
 
‘Life.’

“What a shame you bring to this family. A curse on you and your seven generations!”
 
The Tree of Lives, by Elizabeth Garden

Tantalus is the classic
 
example of the ‘hereditary curse’ in Western thought. The word tantalize in English comes from this
 
mythological figure.

Tantalus is a classic example of the
 
‘hereditary curse’ concept that pervades Ancient thought and still maintains a
 
strong influence today over the direct-descendants of these Ancient societies
 
still living in the Mediterranean world.
 
Tantalus was guilty of crimes against the gods, so his ancestors, e.g.,
 
Orestes, Iphigenia and Agamemnon, were guilty due to ‘tainted blood.’ The modern Greek outlook on the ‘hereditary
 
curse’ thrives despite modernity’s lack of belief in the pantheon of gods, and
 
in spite of our scientific way of life that would discount anything suggesting
 
‘tainted blood’ as pure nonsense. It
 
thrives because it is ingrained in our psychic foundation that we must atone
 
for sins of our parents; it is instinctual, appearing to be as natural as other
 
instincts, such as the natural drive of adolescent children to rebel against
 
parents and authority.


 
This ‘instinct’ is astonishingly absent in my test group for my PhD thesis:
 
The American people of the 21st Century.
 
And this lack of instinctual tendencies among the Americans to (a)
 
recognize the sins of the parents, grandparents, etc.; and, (b) atone for those
 
sins through community philanthropy, and/or, conducting themselves in a manner
 
morally superior to that of their ancestors–as a sort of ‘lifelong-apology’ to
 
the Universe for being of blood that was destructive to it–this, my thesis
 
argues, is the reason why the United
 
States represents about 4.4 percent of the world’s population, but houses
 
around 22 percent of the world’s prisoners; and why America has more addicts
 
than any other country on Earth except for Russia, which excels America by only
 
one-half of one-percent. The American
 
Life–my thesis argues–follows this plan:
 
(a) Enter the world innocent, (b) either suffer child abuse in some
 
form, either at home or at school; or else luck-out and escape it; (c) for
 
those who do suffer abuse, to take the burden on alone rather than blaming a
 
hereditary curse–which makes the abused self-hating, self-destructive, and by
 
this, turn to addiction and repeating the abuse cycle; lastly, (d) through this
 
cycle that destroys lives generation after generation, the ‘hereditary curse
 
ceases to be a mere concept, and becomes an actual phenomenon and
 
self-fulfilling prophecy, where the irony is shown that it is the American
 
people’s deficit of the ‘hereditary curse’ instinct (it could be looked at as a
 
missing gene, although this gene has yet to be discovered)… it is this
 
deficit of this instinct and the American denial that hereditary curses could
 
even exist, that is the *greatest factor in producing the curse to begin
 
with!* This cultural defect, I argue, is
 
leading the entire world into a very bleak and dystopian future.


 
Elizabeth Garden’s “Tree of Lives” is an exceptional book,
 
unique and important because of its original perspective on both, channeling
 
blame for childhood trauma; and the ways that we can become health, and
 
identify what ‘healthy’ means. Garden is
 
applying the psychology that governed the lives of thinkers such as Aristotle,
 
Plato, and Socrates, to her out American value system–a culture that is
 
self-destructive; and–because of its influence over the rest of the world–a
 
dangerous entity in the Universe.


 
Garden’s book, as you can see, solidified the foundation of my thesis;
 
and I am grateful for this novel. I hope
 
that ‘Tree of Lives’ will get the impact it deserves so that we as a planet can
 
begin to finally heal from the deep and tormenting wounds that were inflicted
 
long before we were even born.

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